Exploring what it means to be a great dad.
One day I realised I was an impatient, angry parent. I started BeingDads to work out how to be better, calmer parent. After years of research and self experimentation, I’ve ended up running workshops and training 1,000’s of parents on patient parenting.
If you worry you’re parenting is too snappy, angry or impatient, I can help. Welcome.
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Patience for mums and dads
"There's a last time they'll hold your hand, sit on your lap and run up to you for a cuddle. Make the most of it."
A granddad told me that. I think about it a lot. Don’t miss a moment.
I started BeingDads because of my impatience and my anger. One moment on the school run in particular forced me to ask myself what it meant to be a great dad, and how to get there.
I realised I wasn’t enjoying the moments with my kids, I as rushing through them, it felt like I had a compulsion to rush, to expect immediate action, to not tolerate ‘bad’ behaviour. I wasn’t happy, and my kids were seeing me as the naggy, angry parent. Not good.
So I set out to change.
Over the years I’ve done a lot of work. It’s taken much trial and error. I’ve explored anger management, behavioural science, psychology, psychotherapy, child development and a lot more. Slowly, with much self-experimentation and the help of many dads who subscribe to my newsletter, I’ve refined what works into a course. I’ve now simplified that into a short, practiacl book.
It works.
If my story chimes with yours, please have a look at it.
What being a dad is really about.